Showing posts with label free play. Show all posts
Showing posts with label free play. Show all posts

Thursday, 8 February 2018

Let Them Be Bored // Petits Filous

We have been working with Petits Filous on their Free Play campaign and for the last week we have been on a mission to push past the 'I'm bored' stage and encourage the children to play rather than turning to technology.  The biggest challenge has been after school as the boys are often tired and I am guilty of thinking an hour in front of the TV is what they needed after an intense day.  What I have discovered this week is that actually after a day of structure and stretching their minds, what they really seem to need after school is a chance to exercise their imaginations instead and some playing with no structure, no learning goals or adult input is so much better for them.

The first thing I noticed was how school is influencing their play.  Archie's topic for the term is Space and Dylan's is explorers, the overlap being astronauts.  They had a visit from Helen Sharman (the first British Astronaut to visit the MIR space station) at school the week before and as soon as I sent them out in the garden with no instructions, they declared it to now be the moon.  They chatted as they played about all things space, getting lost in their conversations until they needed an answer.

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They turned to me and asked how people walk on space and I gave them my best man on the moon impression.  I was expecting to be invited into the game here, but they turned away and carried on with their new information. They were space rockets, astronauts and explorers, finding moon rocks and aliens (apparently younger siblings make ideal aliens!)

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The easiest way to start this new habit of letting them play free with no structure or input seemed to be sending them out in the garden but the British weather doesn't make that possible everyday and when we are stuck inside, I observed their new favourite game 'pets' that involves every cuddly toy in the house.  

The boys started playing this game weeks ago, but given the time with no distractions I found them going back to it time and time again.  I spoke to leading play expert Anita Cleare and she said that children often return to the same game, evolving it slightly each time they play to get something different out of it.  On the second wet day when they wrote a list of names and ages of all their 'pets' and on the third wet day when they celebrated one of their pet's birthday parties I could really see what she meant.  Many aspects of the game stayed the same, but it adapted and grew, the imaginative world that they were immersing themselves in became more detailed and intricate and each time they played they seemed less aware of me even being in the house.

free play, playing free, petits filous

After school playing is apparently much more hunger inducing than sitting infront of the TV and we had Petits Filous yoghurts on hand for a snack (the pouches are perfect for eating in the garden or at the park as they can be kept out the fridge for up to 5 hours).  Each pot (or pouch) is fortified with Vitamin D for healthy bones and these pouches have less than 100 kcal per portion too.

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I remember playing free as a child, shops, schools and overturned coffee tables becoming rabbit hutches.  I grew up before technology was everywhere and I love watching the boys having those carefree experiences too.  Technology plays an important part in our lives, but playing free is even more important for them and something we need to make time for everyday.

 This has been an eye opening experiment and I have loved watching their imaginations and getting a new insight into how their brains work.  There is still a time and place for the TV but we are going to try and do more free play everyday too.

free play, playing free, petits filous

free play, playing free, petits filous

free play, playing free, petits filous


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Sunday, 14 January 2018

Play Free with Petits Filous

Having had my children so close together, free play is something they have had to do out of necessity.  I am often busy with a sibling, clearing up or buried under endless mountains of laundry.  The children have learnt from an early age how to occupy themselves and it is such an important skill.

Petits Filous Play free

Free play is defined by Play England as “…children choosing what they want to do, how they want to do it and when they want to stop and try something else. Free Play has no external goals set by adults and has no adult imposed curriculum. Although adults usually provide the space and resources for Free Play and might be involved, the child takes the lead and the adults respond to cues from the child.” and whilst it can be hard at times to let them get on with it when 'it' involves mess and noise, it is often the best thing for them as they nurture their creativity, learn cause and effect and develop physically.

We have just come back from a week in the mountains where the only TV around spoke to us only in French and it forced the children to play free even more than usual.  We broke up time in the snow with indoor free time and despite the limited toys we had managed to pack, the boys made their own games, they got lost in imaginary worlds and they played without distractions.  

Petits Filous Play free

Free play can be indoors or out, surrounded by toys or with just the natural world.  It can look different everytime or be very similar and I love when I get invited to be part of it.  Petits Filous created this lovely video showing a little girl jumping in a muddy puddle and then her Mum and Grandma following.  She is learning cause and effect, she is having fun and her family is supporting her.




I am going to be working with Petits Filous over the coming weeks to embrace playing free, to let my children get bored and to see what happens when they push past it.  I am going to be chatting with Anita Cleare, parenting expert and co-founder of The Positive Parenting Project, and I am looking forward to the challenge!

Petits Filous is the no.1 kids fromage frais brand in the UK and each pot is fortified with extra vitamin D to ensure that even in these darker months, little bones stay strong and healthy.  The  Change4Life campaign launched by Public Health England recommends Petits Filous – with less than 100 calories per serving – as a healthy snack for kids.*   Dylan and Archie think that snack time is a great excuse for free time and they learned about how long their tongues were as they tried to lick it off their noses!  Petits Filous now do snack pouches as well that can be out of the fridge for up to 5 hours and don't need a spoon so they are perfect for out and about!

Petits Filous Play free

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(*on specific variants: Petits Filous Strawberry & Raspberry Fromage Frais 6 x 47g, Petits Filous Strawberry & Apricot Fromage Frais 6 x 47g, Petits Filous Strawberry & Banana Fromage Frais 6 x 47g, Petits Filous Strawberry Fromage Frais 6 x 47g,Petits Filous Strawberry & Raspberry Fromage Frais 4 x 85g, Petits Filous Strawberry & Apricot Fromage Frais 4 x 85g,My First Petits Filous 6 x 47g, Petits Filous Magic Squares Strawberry & Vanilla 4 x 80g, Petits Filous Magic Squares Raspberry & Vanilla 4 x 80g, Petits Filous Strawberry Pouch 1 x 70g, Petits Filous Raspberry Pouch 1 x 70g,Petits Filous Strawberry & Raspberry Yoghurt 4 x 100g



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